"KEY" BLOG of the Day

~ Written & Copyrighted by Coach Brian J. Zahn - PCLC

 

SELF-DETERMINATION

(April 2013 - Through Self-Determination I was able to over-come the fear of height and flight)

In a single lifetime, one will be faced with an easy recipe for failure, disappointment and self-destruction.  After all, the world sets us up on this illusion the moment we are born with the amount of times we hear the word "NO" throughout our childhood.  As we go through life, we are witness to much more through the newspapers, magazines, television, movies, smartphones, social media, the internet, our jobs, through our friends, co-workers and even family-members.  

With growth of technology at its highest peak than ever before and millions of tasks needed to be fulfilled on a daily basis, an even bigger mountain has now been put in front of us which our past relatives have never had to endure.  Those who are truly "Self-Determined" to be happy and successful in life, will come to understand not to hurdle over any huge obstacles alone.  They are smart to link arms with those who are of like-mind, in receiving help and guidance through each chapter of their life's story, yet truly aware to never let anyone else hold their pen!

Just when things seem to be at the lowest, "Self-Determined" individuals understand when it's best to stop, put their pens down and take a break, reflecting to where they have been.  By honoring their journey, they can see the milestones of how each step has played an intricate part and how much they have grown from the day, weeks, months and years before.  They also comprehend that life is not a destination to get to the finish line faster than anyone else, yet to be "proud" of each step they have chosen to climb however long it might have taken.  Even when they stumble and fall they recognize that life isn't perfect, yet perfectly-imperfect.  This realization not only offers the right leverage, but the "KEY" attitude to keep moving forward and looking up, while continuously connecting to others and asking for assistance along the way so a new chapter can be written!

Coach Brian

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BRIAN J. ZAHN, PCLC

(Professional & Certified Life Coach)

*Owner of "A New View, To A New You, LLC"  (Nationwide Coaching)
      ~ Specializing in Health, Business, Team Leadership, Relationships, Goal Setting & Wellness Mindset)*Motivational Speaker
*Columnist: "From The COACH's Corner"

*Published Writer of over 200 articles

*Blog:  KEY Blog of the Day
*Trademarked for his Be The KEY Coaching Program

CONTACT #:  480-254-5000  
WEBSITE:     www.bethekey.net
FACEBOOK:  Be the Key...to your happiness
TWITTER:     @KEY_Nspirations
SKYPE:         Coach.Brianz

COACH BRIAN'S APPEARANCES:
XM Satellite Radio Show "Broadminded Broads" from Washington DC

KFNX 1100AM
KTAR 620AM
Keenan Delmar Records
Barrow's Neurosurgical Associates
United Aesthetics Association
The General Insurance
Caution Unlimited - Woman's Self-Defense 

University of Massachusetts
Western International University
BluePrint High School
Apollo College 

Margo Gardens Retreat Center
Natural Awakenings
AZ Goodlife News
AZ Net News
SanTanSun
Ahwatukee News
State Press
College Times
Precognito
Skirt.com
Thumbtack.com
One Planet
Chandler Magazine
Chandler Business News
Chandler Chamber of Commerce
Isagenix International
New Life Health
Coach-A-Thon

WHAT IS A “TRUE” FATHER, DAD or PAPA?

"KEY" BLOG of the Day

~ Written & Copyrighted by Coach Brian J. Zahn - PCLC

WHAT IS A “TRUE” FATHER, DAD or PAPA?

                (Me with my Dad - 1969)

It's true that a Mother's road is much different than a Fathers, Dads or Papas.  After all he doesn't have to hold a living thing in his body for 9 months or even go through the pain of child birth.  He also doesn't have the same sixth sense of knowing when there’s something not right, the same amazing way she innately does or even feel as close emotionally like she can.  So just what is a “TRUE” Father, Dad or Papa?   He’s the person who plays an intricate part in his child’s life by wearing many hats, which includes being the VISIONARY who strives to offer a better life than his own, a TOUR GUIDE in pointing the right direction, an ADVISER when decisions need to be made, an ACCOUNTANT to make sure that bills are paid so there’s a roof over the head, clothes on the back and food in the stomach, a HANDY-MAN to fix things when they are broken, a POLICEMAN to make sure that the golden rules to life are never broken, a DOCTOR who fixes boo-boos, a THERAPIST who lends an ear to heal a broken heart, a PHILOSOPHER who offers insight that everything happens in life for a reason, a SPIRITUAL DIRECTOR to assist in always keeping the faith, a TEACHER who helps educate on many topics, a FIREMAN who helps distinguish moments that become heated, a REFEREE who presides over situations from a neutral point of view, an OPHTHALMOLOGIST who helps you see better in understanding that weaknesses can become strengths, a PODIATRIST who helps in putting one’s best foot forward, a COMEDIAN who offers silliness so that life is never taken too seriously, a LIFE COACH who offers the awareness of life’s possibilities in accomplishing goals, wishes and dreams and a BEST FRIEND who will always be by your side in any situation, while offering unconditional love.  

So, to all the FATHERS, DADS and PAPAS of the world, I proudly wish you a wonderful day off from all the hats that you consistently wear on a daily basis so that you may be able to stop and reflect just how important you truly have been.  And to my own Dad, I say "THANKS", for without you I wouldn't be the person I am today, who's passionate in serving others through Life Coaching, while making the world a better place to live!

Coach Brian

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BRIAN J. ZAHN, PCLC

(Professional & Certified Life Coach)

*Owner of "A New View, To A New You,LLC"  (Nationwide Coaching)
      ~ Specializing in Health, Business, Team Leadership, Relationships, Goal Setting & Wellness Mindset)
*Motivational Speaker
*Columnist: "From The COACH's Corner" & Published Writer
*Trademarked for his Be The KEY Coaching Program

CONTACT #:  480-254-5000  
WEBSITE:     www.bethekey.net
FACEBOOK:  Be the Key...to your happiness
TWITTER:     @KEY_Nspirations
SKYPE:         Coach.Brianz

COACH BRIAN'S APPEARANCES:
XM Satellite Radio Show "Broadminded Broads" from Washington DC KFNX 1100AM
KTAR 620AM
Keenan Delmar Records
Barrow's Neurosurgical Associates
United Aesthetics Association
The General Insurance
Caution Unlimited - Woman's Self-DefenseUniversity of Massachusetts
Western International University
BluePrint High School
Apollo CollegeMargo Gardens Retreat Center
Natural Awakenings
AZ Goodlife News
AZ Net News
SanTanSun
Ahwatukee News
State Press
College Times
Precognito
Skirt.com
Thumbtack.com
One Planet
Chandler Magazine
Chandler Business News
Chandler Chamber of Commerce
Isagenix Team Leader
New Life Health
Coach-A-Thon